You know what really grinds my gears?!

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Or better yet, you know one spouse is cheating on the other and/or the parents are seconds away from filing for divorce.

My anecdotes suggest the more happy horseshit people post about their perfect family, the bigger shitshow it is behind the scenes. I think they're trying to convince themselves more than anyone else.

I don't wish unhappiness on anyone... but I try to be as transparent about all the stuff that sucks so it's clear we're not all nannies and traveling and cars and date nights and christmas lights.

Chris dropping big truth bombs!  Absolutely spot on

Neither of us post much on Facebook anymore, frankly because I don't care what people know or think of our lives.  Like every couple neither of us is perfect but we are genuinely happy and I don't need to validate that to anyone.  You would be surprised (or maybe not) how much flak we get from some family members that we aren't posting enough on social media, or that they aren't seeing enough photos of our lives.  I'm sorry, what?  Do I owe you a play by play on my morning coffee, or that Kirkland's run we made this weekend?  I am already anticipating that it will be unbearable when we have kids, wife will probably be forced to post more or face the fury of the family.

I pretty much only post on my public watch Instagram anymore, because its fun and I want to keep building a follower base to connect with other collectors and basically just try to get free stuff.  If people want to try to measure their e-dicks to my life they can look me up and check my accomplishments on LinkedIn or something.

That reminds me, I should probably go update LinkedIn to remind the world how I crushed it again this year