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[ScottyB]

Unfortunately the future wife is the one who refuses to relocate

That's a red flag.

not trying to pile on, and i feel like we've talked about this before either here or on groupme, but if you're at this point of bending the truth for an interview out of desperation, and your SO is telling you "good luck, i've got mine", you're gonna have a bad time.

i hope not, but i've seen this before.  get a constructive conversation going about what you both need in life to be content before things get too permanent.