02-04-2011, 12:14 PM
how often do these better positions open up in your field? depending on how often could change how the situation pans out.
reason i ask is that I would wait at least a year to a year and a half before making a move from your current position. as a family member i just can't see there being any way of telling him without him feeling hurt or you looking ungrateful after such a short period of time. of course I don't really know your relationship with him, so he may be really chill about it, but deep down there's going to be a sense of getting stepped on by him i think. if it was another other corporate suit I wouldn't care and would give you a high five on the way out. but family is a huge grey area.
if someone makes an effort to help you get something as big as a nice place of entry into your career, i'd suck it up for a while and consider your service as a debt to their effort.
reason i ask is that I would wait at least a year to a year and a half before making a move from your current position. as a family member i just can't see there being any way of telling him without him feeling hurt or you looking ungrateful after such a short period of time. of course I don't really know your relationship with him, so he may be really chill about it, but deep down there's going to be a sense of getting stepped on by him i think. if it was another other corporate suit I wouldn't care and would give you a high five on the way out. but family is a huge grey area.
if someone makes an effort to help you get something as big as a nice place of entry into your career, i'd suck it up for a while and consider your service as a debt to their effort.
2010 Civic Si
2019 4Runner TRD Off-Road
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Past: 03 Xterra SE 4x4 | 05 Impreza 2.5RS | 99.5 A4 Quattro 1.8T | 01 Accord EX | 90 Maxima GXE | 96 Explorer XLT
2019 4Runner TRD Off-Road
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Past: 03 Xterra SE 4x4 | 05 Impreza 2.5RS | 99.5 A4 Quattro 1.8T | 01 Accord EX | 90 Maxima GXE | 96 Explorer XLT

