09-29-2007, 02:26 PM
Andy makes a very good point; you really do want to make sure this is all the real deal (a recruiter's job is to put a spin to entice people in) before you start making life-changing decisions.
Honestly, I think I would go if I was in your position. If it was anywhere other than the sandbox, I'd definitely go. Aside from the monetary benefits, you'll get to travel somewhere that you'll never go again, it could be a great life experience, and it is in your field and sounds like it would like incredible on the resume.
A good point was made that this is your first long-term girlfriend, but it isn't necessarily long term enough for you to turn down an opportunity like this. When you come back, not only will YOU be better off, but you'll be in a better position to be serious about a relationship and being a provider.
Honestly, I think I would go if I was in your position. If it was anywhere other than the sandbox, I'd definitely go. Aside from the monetary benefits, you'll get to travel somewhere that you'll never go again, it could be a great life experience, and it is in your field and sounds like it would like incredible on the resume.
A good point was made that this is your first long-term girlfriend, but it isn't necessarily long term enough for you to turn down an opportunity like this. When you come back, not only will YOU be better off, but you'll be in a better position to be serious about a relationship and being a provider.