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[PDenbigh]

Heres a question for all you old ass people on here Are any of you on the fence about marriage b/c you fear it'll sap all the fun out of life? This probably sounds "immature", but I don't think I'll even contemplate married life until my 30 somethings because I want to make money, enjoy a nice life for myself, and cruise singles bars looking for milfs. The last thing I want is a wife that emasculates me and tells me what I can and can't do, how is that living? I guess I'm not sold on the insitution of marriage. Please speak up with your opinions, or put on your jungle hat and we can go cougar hunting together

Valid concern based on the mistakes of many men out there. Some men need a woman like that though. It doesn't sound like you do. Nor do most of the guys in this club off the top of my head.

My advice is just to be picky. Don't tolerate someone that dominates your life. Don't even let it happen even a little bit. You have to be in control of the relationship.

The right woman won't drain you. She'll be your partner in crime, sharing things you enjoy and being a catalyst to your dreams. You want a relationship that constantly raises the bar for both people. And you want a woman that is up to the challenge.

At least that's how I view the situation based on a handful of serious (3+ year) relationships.

I was engaged once and I couldn't get eliminate this nagging feeling that I'm getting in to one of "those" relationships that you fear above. I broke off that relationship. At the time it was the hardest thing I'd been though, but it has been oh-so worth it. I can pretty much guarantee you I'd be miserable or divorced by now ahd I not been prudent.

Just don't rush it. If it doesn't feel right, it's not right. When it's right, you'll know (seriously).